Sometimes having a kid can be very exposing. Not only of your selfishness, but just plain exposing. For instance, today Haven had half of the Trader Joe's employees laughing as she was pulling my shirt down in her effort to vacate the shopping cart. I was busy trying to pull it back up, and we were having a definite tug-of-war. The man who was dishing up samples of dressing and gravy found it particularly funny. A female worker said loudly, "I saw her pulling your shirt off--I think she's hungry!" Alot of the nearby shoppers turned around. Ahh, yes, I am the spectacle at Trader Joes. Hurray.